Mediating between your needs and those of your beloveds could get a little murky today. If asserting what kind of take-out you want feels like an Olympian task, or you can’t pick a movie to save your life, reset. Expand your thoughts to something beyond your personal preferences. Debate the news. Read a novel. Ask your loved ones questions. Broaden the topic to something wider than dinner and trust that putting your attention on others will help your own needs come back into focus.