We have an Aquarius Full Moon coming up on August 11th.
Aquarius is the zodiac sign that rules friendships. That means this Full Moon brings extra energy to our friendships. But this time, not only can it expose who our true friends and BFFs are, but it will also allow us to figure out who we need to block from our lives!
Full Moons occur when the transit (moving) Sun and Moon exactly oppose one another in the zodiac. Typically, we usually have one each month and 12-13 each year. Full Moons are highly emotional energy and are associated with culminations and endings.
Each Full Moon can bring endings dependent on the sign it’s in and what it’s doing to your own birth chart. (And if you don’t know your birth chart yet, make sure to use the free birth chart generator now!)
This lunar phase allows us to make hard decisions about our friendships—this may include walking away.
This Aquarius Full Moon is extra strong for it, though, because it comes at a hard position to Uranus, who is the natural ruling planet of Aquarius. Uranus is square this Full Moon, and squares are challenging aspects that stir up friction and make us more aware of the frustration and foundational problems.
On top of that, Uranus is gearing up to turn retrograde on August 24th in Taurus, so we’ll have this planet moving backward very soon for the rest of the year. This can bring out old problems or karma and make us more aware of subconscious issues and past baggage in our friendships.
That means this Full Moon can be make-or-break for a lot of friendships. Continuing on with a challenging friendship that doesn’t serve you anymore just doesn’t work now.
Changes in friendships may come quickly, or at least quicker than usual. It just becomes unbearable to deal with, and this can be the breaking point for many.
If you want to learn more about Full Moons, check out the Ultimate Guide to Full Moons.
Evaluate if you can bring stability to your friendships, and this can help you figure out which ones will continue and which ones you need to pull away from.
You may be more willing to make a change in your friendships quickly and can focus on entering into different, better friendships.
Old friendships may come under the microscope most, and you can see hidden issues that have become a problem and decide if you want to keep working at them or end them.
Try to focus on transforming instead, either transforming the friendship itself, making it feel new again, or changing you. That may mean walking away, but you can focus on making better friends now that you know what you want.
You may be tempted to take on more of the responsibilities in your friendships, but this doesn’t ease your load, only adds to it, and it may be for nothing, so think carefully before you do that.
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You may be more willing to walk away now, or at least put more space between you. Allow the time apart to give you the space to determine what the fate of the friendship should be.
The friends you have may be changing, and that can be okay. You can make room for higher-quality connections that are stronger and stand the test of time.
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If they’re not committed to changing the connection like you are, this may be a sign to let it go. Focus on the people who are most committed to a healthy, positive bond.
Pay attention to what they say, how they say it, and how they listen. This may give clues as to how important you are to them or if you aren’t at all.
You likely want to have friends that remind you to have fun and reconnect with your heart, and this can be a priority right now.
You likely need friends you have a solid emotional connection with, who understand you and all your quirks, and with whom you have a solid foundation.
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Communication can be more important to you in your friendships, and you may prioritize those with whom you feel you have a good mental connection.
If you need to mourn the ending of a friendship, that’s okay. Remember all you learned from them and from the relationship, and move forward knowing you’re a better person for having known them, even if it was hard.
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